Healing my heart ❤

Sad? Angry? Unsure? Tired? Let down? Sleep derived? I was probably feeling all or most of these this morning, why, beats me… I’ve been like this for years. I feel not at peace sometimes, but for the life of me I can’t make out what the reason is…

And then, i heal myself… like i did today… there are many ways I do it, but the sureshot way is to get close to nature… anyplace, anytime, even without anyone!

…With blowing wind in my face or the sound of water gushing, the birds chirping in the not so high skies, a lone tree standing its ground as if in defiance to the barren sands around… a flashy flower showing off its color amidst scores of leaves, a teeny tiny green leaf fighting out to make a dried plant alive again… a toddler playing with himself and giggling away… an unusual tune or song played loud enough to drown not only other noises but also the restless voices within…

In some such places, i say I could probably die here, and my people are baffled why i say that… but in my heart i know… I just heal here!

Happy birthday, dear Vipruta!

ખુલ્લા આકાશ માં ઉડજે તું, બની વિના ડોર ની પતંગ,

ખુશિઓ જે આપે અઢળક, એવા મળતા રહે તને પ્રસંગ….

સંતોષ રહે જીવનમાં, તને હર-એક સફળતા ફાવે,

અશ્રુ જો આવે આંખો મા તારી, એ ફક્ત ખુશીના આવે!

કદી એ ઓછું થાય ના, આ તારું unique પાગલપન…

ભલે વધે છે ઉંમર તારી , છતાંય, જળવાય રહે મનમાં બચપન! ​

Seasons change, Life persists!

Seasons change… Life persists…

The departure of summer marks the arrival of new life, with renewed energy, beauty and form…

The seemingly lifeless , dry and withered plants grow new leaves and flower buds,

I can’t stop marvelling at this simple yet magical phenomena of Nature, how life persists and renews itself every season…

This seemingly simple cycle of life holds such deep wisdom… no matter how dry, useless or prickly you feel today, life is you , within you, and it definitely will blossom back with newer purpose and beauty…

Condition? Just one! Dont uproot and throw that arid, dead looking plant (or life) , don’t lose hope on it, or yourself… give it the time , nurture it…

I don’t give up, not on my plants , Not on Myself !



Diwali Wishes

જીવનમાં તમારા છવાઈ જાય રંગ,

મનમાં રહે હંમેશા ઉત્સવના ઉમંગ,

પ્રેમ ના પ્રકાશથી ચીરાય હૈયાનું અંધારું,

સુખ-સમૃધ્ધિ થી રહે છલોછલ, જીવનભર તમારું,

દિપાવલી ને સાલ મુબારક નું, પ્રણામ સ્વીકારો મારું .

 Be #SameButDifferent 

Two photos….

The same place, same object and the same camera as well… with just a different filter, and see how dramatically the picture changes !

In the same way, our perspective decides how we look at things, rather how they seem to us ! How things are presented to us also defines how we see them… This is also how beliefs are made!

There’s no right or wrong, it all depends on our viewpoint!

There are so many ways to look at things, so many opinions and perspectives that no two people will see the same object as one! BUT that does not take away the beauty of the object! Or change the fact of what the object is!

So lets lower our barriers and stop judging people, sometimes both the viewpoints maybe right, And Beautiful too…. its just that we are too engrossed looking at it from our own point of view to understand the other one!

Life could probably be smoother if we go to the other persons perspective sometimes, we can atleast try!

We are all humans, all beautiful!

#WisdomoftheDay #SameButDifferent #DifferentButTogether

Finding Life… in slow motion

These days… all of us are looking for that perfect parcel called life… beautiful, happening, spectacular, picturesque, unique , fulfilling, fun, happy, serene…. we want it all! Together , in one go! 

The attached video i took at a beach is a simile to finding that perfect parcel.

While looking for that awesome big package of perfection, we forget that indeed ,the best things in life come in small packets…

Instead of waiting for the right time for the sunset or clouds or light conditions of the sky and the perfect waves of the sea, lets zoom in to one part of the beach… to one small wave that’s bubbling with the energy of happiness… 

Let’s not look for the perfect shining sandy beach, for even small pebbles are beautiful and they give the most beautiful bounce to even a feeble little wave !

Let’s not wait for the huge splash of the sea but instead look at how amazingly refreshing even a few droplets of water can be…

Lets not wait for an unknown time to scrutinize the beauties of the sea, just let’s take a minute and enjoy the simplicity of a single wave in slow motion!

Lets not wait for the time all the hurdles in life are overcome, for life, like water, flows smoothly even over a lot of sand and a few small stones!  Life just does not stop! 

For in the video of life, every wave is our effort, which, when collides with the pebbles of challenges and limitations, can create the most unique splatters that take us higher and provide spurts of beautiful success in our lives. 

The Beauty of life is not in a timelapse where there are no highlights, so let’s just slow down a bit and enjoy the happiness of focusing on our little blessings!

Happy birthday wish for my hubby darling

મહેફીલ નો હરદમ હંમેશાં, રાખી લે છે તું રંગ,

સખા બનીને, હંસતા હરઘડી, તું રહેતો સહુની સંગ !

મન નો એટલો નિર્મળ જાણે , કલયુગ નો તું રામ,

સગા હોય કે પારકા, તું આવે સહુને કામ!

કાળજી અને પ્રેમ થી, તું સતત મને પંપાળે,

સુખ-દુખ ની હરએક ઘડી માં,હાથ ઝાલી સંભાળે!

પ્રેમ તને હું કરું કેટલો, કઇ રીતે એ માંપુ?

તુજ તો મારું સર્વસ્વ છે, હવે તને શું આપું ?

રહે સતત તું સ્મિતમય , હઁસતો હંમેશાં રહેજે…

સુખી નિરંતર, સાદગી ભર્યો, પ્રવાહ બની તું  વહેજે!!!


દર્શાવો નહીં સ્વજનોને, તો ફાયદો ક્યાં છે?

છાના રહેવું ,જીવનનો એ કાયદો કયાં છે?

વિષાદ થાય જો અંતરમાં, તૉ રડી લો તમે ઝર-ઝર,

નથી પાડી એ ફરજ કોઈએ, હઁસતા રહેવું ઉંમર ભર !

ઉમળકો થાય લાગણીઓ નો, છલકવા દો એ હેત…

સમય જશે સરી નહીં તો, હાથમાંથી જેમ રેત !

મનમાં જે અટકાવવી પડે, એવી લાગણી નું શું કામ?

દિલમાંજ રહે જો દિલની,સાહેબ, તો ક્યાં મળશે આરામ?

તોલવા પડે જ્યાં બોલતાં પહેલા શબ્દો ને, કહો તમેજ, એને મૈત્રી નું નામ કેમ અપાય ?

પહેરવાં પડે છે મુખવટા, દુનિયા સમક્ષ માનું છૂં… એજ મુખવટા, ઘરમાં પણ, પહેરવાં કેમ સહેવાય?

દર્શાવી ના હોત જો ના એમણે , પ્રેમ- સહાનુભૂતિ..

થઈ હોત તો શું દુનિયા ને, પુરુષોત્તમ રામ ની અનુભૂતિ?

ચોર્યું હોત ન માખણ, રમ્યા ના હોત જો રાસ…

વ્હાલો આપણો કાનુડો, શું લાગત આટલો ખાસ?

વહેતું, રવ કરતું ઝરણું, કેવું લાગે છે સુંદર…

એટલાં રમણીય કદી એ ના લાગે, પત્થરો નાં ડુંગર !

માટે રાખો વહેતાં, લાગણીઓ ના તરંગ…

જુઓ પછી કેવા ખીલે છે, માનવતા ના રંગ !

HAPPINESS is… letting someone know how you feel!

So this is how I feel… I feel… Thankful!

Thankful to my parents… my mom and dad…

I’m Thankful that you brought me to this world. Thankful that you ensured that you imbibed in me what matters the most- HUMANITY! Thankful that you also have me 2 wonderful siblings to live my life with, they are priceless to me! Thankful that you let me grow up in a loving joint family. Thankful that you showed your confidence in me, ALWAYS! Thankful that you choose for me a life partner that means the world to me, and for whom I’m his world! Thankful that you thought of and helped us set up BHC, which also ensured that i have all that i have today…Thankful that you forever trust me! Thankful that you are the bestest parents ever! And thankful that you after even better grandparents to the kids, what i would do without you, i can’t imagine!  I’m Thankful for what you made me, Strong, Confident and able to face life.  ❤ you always and forever, more than I’ll ever be able to tell you!

Thankful to my extended parents- Dida, Kaki, HU, BIG Dida, Kakaji and Rekha Auntie! 

I’m Thankful that you have been what you have been to me and what you continue being to me…extensions of parents! Thankful for building my character and making me strong but sensitive! I’m Thankful that you’ve always loved me and have always been there for me as long as i can remember… I’m also super thankful to you all for being such cool friendly grandparents to my kiddos, you mean so much not only to me but to them too! I’m Thankful that you have been my friends for all my life… I’m thankful for your unending love, understanding and trust!

Thankful to my Sister Trupti…

 Thankful that you’ve always loved me unconditionally and warmly.  Thankful that you are with me and have put up with my antics throughout life.  Thankful that you will always be here for me (i have the strongest faith you will be, thankfully) ! I’m thankful to you for being my friend guide and mentor. Im thankful for how you have helped me grow with you and beside you … into myself! I’m also super thankful to you for making me realise the magic of gratitude! 💕

Thankful to my Hubby 

I’m Thankful first of all for the fact that you happened to me! Thankful how you showed me to trust and love and give… I’m Thankful for the unbreakable trust you have put up in me, that showed me that really, people and relations are trustworthy! Thankful for the support you have always extended to build up BHC. Thankful that both our beautiful kids look like you ( yes, i agree they look like you) 😅! I’m thankful that you let me maintain my space, respect, freedom and passion! Thankful that you cook such yummy dishes for me !  I’m super Thankful that you love me like you do!  I’m thankful to you for growing with me! I’m thankful to you for being the best type of hubby a lady can have! I love you endlessly! 😗

Thankful to Vips

I’m thankful that you asked me whatever question you did to me on Facebook that eventually led to this friendship! I’m thankful you asked to go together to that Saree meet with me (in your green bandhani). I remember you talking so effortlessly with me later that day, im so thankful for that because otherwise i would never have been able to make a conversation with you! I’m thankful that you introduced me to such meaningful friendship- understanding , accommodating, fun and yet brutally honest! Thankyou for being what you are — forever supporting, highly encouraging and a little bit mad 😛! I’m thankful that you, apart from being my closest friend, have embedded to my life this beautiful group of friends, so many of them who are so very near to my heart, this friendship has truly  filled a deep void in me and made my otherwise boring life so much more fun !  I’m Thankful that you love me as myself and are always pushing me to do better! #friendsforlife


Thankyou God for this wonderful abundant joyful life! 

” Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou ”